I've never done it the way they laid it out. I followed work that lit me up and left when it didn't. Moved countries. Changed industries. Said f*it more than once and meant it every time.
Same with this. I watched Oliveda for a year before I touched it.
I've done all four of those stages badly. Bought the thing everyone was talking about and put it on skin that wasn't ready for it, rebuilt my barrier twice before I stopped treating one-at-a-time as a suggestion.
The business side went the same way. Months spent pushing at people who weren't asking. My skin is sensitive and so is my patience. Now I add one thing and watch what it actually does, and I've got better at spotting which conversations are already moving. I had to learn both of those. Neither one came naturally.
Yours will look like something else. That's the point.
OAHU-BASED · DUBLIN BORN

